Posted on January 28, 2019 in Finances and Divorce

Retirement accounts and pension plans are important issues in Illinois divorce proceedings. In some cases, they are the most valuable asset acquired during a marriage. Even though one spouse may hold the pension, IRA, 401(k), or another retirement fund, this account typically qualifies as marital property.

Marital property is anything acquired during the duration of the marriage, as opposed to non-marital property, which accumulated before the commencement of the union and is not a part of the marital estate. All or part of a retirement account is usually included as marital property and is subject to property division.

Retirement Savings as Marital Assets

Account terminology depends entirely on the type held by the spouse. If the account was an employer-sponsored retirement plan, it likely is a 401(k) or pension plan. Typically, the verbiage used for the division is known as a Qualified Domestic Relations Order, or QDRO (pronounced as “quad row” or “cue drow”). If, however, you or your spouse had an Individual Retirement Account (IRA), a transfer incident to divorce would be the correct terminology.

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 Posted on January 24, 2019 in Divorce

There is no doubt military life is very different than the civilian world. Between training schedules, deployments, and frequent relocations, being in the military is not for everyone. On top of all of the pressures our servicemembers and their families face, the military community also deals with a high divorce rate. Members of the military often change over time due to the constant demands, and family members also evolve with the situation. It is not uncommon that after a few years, a couple realizes neither of them is the same person and they are no longer compatible.

If this situation resonates with you, first, know that you are not alone. Here is a look at the differences you face in a military divorce.

The Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act

This act urges the military to accept Illinois state statutes for issues such as child support, spousal maintenance, and military retirement plans. Therefore, Illinois has the right to award retirement pay to a spouse or a soon-to-be former spouse. Although it is not guaranteed, the retirement pay can be distributed as either a fixed dollar amount or a percentage of disposable retired pay. To qualify, spouses must meet the qualifications of the “10/10 Rule,” which states the marriage must have lasted at least 10 years, and the service member must have served at least 10 years of the marriage performing eligible military duties.

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 Posted on January 18, 2019 in Divorce

Divorce is a stressful process no matter what method you choose. While spouses are busy dividing their union into two separate lives, researchers recommend they do their best to make sure any children they share stay atop the priorities list. Although children may say they are fine with the situation, the process is always emotional and confusing. The final result may be a new living arrangement and lifestyle. They will likely miss at least one parent every day, and possibly lose friends at school due to a relocation.

Parents looking for an alternative to divorce litigation will find divorce mediation offers an opportunity to both protect and prioritize their children. Divorce mediation benefits include:

Parents Lead by Example

There are no benefits derived from a child witnessing their parents argue. Although spouses can terminate their marriage, they will always be parents. Divorce mediation avoids the emotional courtroom arguments by allowing both parties to come together and discuss their options civilly. If emotions begin to escalate, they can walk away and revisit the matter once tensions have subsided. Mediation is an excellent chance to teach children a valuable lesson, that no matter what hard feelings may exist, you can put them aside and compromise for the betterment of everyone involved.

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 Posted on January 16, 2019 in Divorce

Grandparents play a pivotal role in family structure. Parents provide for their children, discipline them, keep them safe, and teach them to be functioning members of society. Grandparents, on the other hand, provide unconditional love, wisdom, and a link to family history. Research suggests having a strong grandparent-grandchild connection has long-term benefits. Unfortunately, in some cases, grandparents find themselves unwelcome near their grandchild.

If a parent or parents refuse to allow visitation, do Illinois courts grant grandparents visitation rights?

Child Visitation at Parent’s Discretion

The laws surrounding parenting time and visitation focus on what is in the best interests of the child. In Illinois, the court assumes the parent also has that in mind and does not intend to intervene. Furthermore, the rights of a fit parent are constitutionally protected. It is right of the parents, not the court, to determine with whom their children should interact. Unless the actions of the parent are harmful or otherwise detrimental to the child in question, the courts typically rule in favor of the parent.

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 Posted on January 14, 2019 in Child Custody

There are a multitude of reasons a parent may wish to restrict visitation between a child and their other biological parent. Sometimes there is evidence of neglect or abuse, and in other cases, the child does not want to go for their own reasons. No matter the situation, a parent’s natural instincts kick in to protect their child and do what is best for them. Yet you must balance that with what is also legally appropriate.

When it comes to parenting time in Illinois, is it ever permissible to restrict visitation?

Obstructing Court Order

Typically, only under the direst of circumstances will a judge restrict visitation to a biological parent. However, a clause exists protecting children from potential danger. After any court order is given, such as a parenting time agreement, only a judge can legally approve modifications. Non-compliance with a standing court order is illegal and can result in harsh penalties, but a judge can authorize modifications if evidence exists that visitation would endanger the child's physical, mental, moral, or emotional health in a serious manner.

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 Posted on January 09, 2019 in Family Law

Until recent years, the rights of a father to their biological child largely depended on their marriage to the child’s mother. However, with nearly half of all marriages ending in divorce, much of our society is waiting until later in life to marry, or opting to avoid marriage altogether. The number of unwed mothers delivering children has risen from 4 percent in 1950 to nearly 40 percent each year since 2008, which has left many fathers without rights to their offspring. As non-marital children become a societal norm, more biological fathers are pushing for their natural rights, which has become known as the Father’s Rights Movement.

A Child’s Benefit to Having a Father in their Lives

There has never been a question regarding the bond between a mother and a child. Traditionally, mothers were arguably the most critical person in a child’s life. The mother was caring, supportive, and protective. However, fathers also play a pivotal role in their child’s life. They can also be caregivers, nurturers, and disciplinarians. Studies show children who grow up with a father figure:

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 Posted on January 07, 2019 in Divorce

Psychological experts agree grief is the emotion most frequently experienced during a divorce, although it is sometimes disguised among its multiple stages. Even the fortunate couples who have an amicable divorce feel grief. Separation often feels like a loss, whether it is losing the relationship, the dream of “happily ever after” they hoped for on their wedding day or even the marital assets accumulated during the marriage.

The various stages of grief can have a significant impact on the divorce process, no matter which route a couple chooses. However, through alternative dispute resolution (ADR) and mediation, intense emotions are both expected and resolved, which allows all parties the opportunity to find peace in a difficult situation.

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 Posted on January 03, 2019 in Divorce

Adjusting during and after a divorce is often difficult for children. Experts believe children adapt better to life after a divorce when they continue a relationship with both parents. Illinois lawmakers agree and have several legal guidelines in place to prevent the unnecessary separation of children from their parents. However, we understand that no two situations are identical, and in some cases, it is in the best interest of the child to relocate.

Before packing your bags, consider these laws if you are weighing your options for a possible upcoming relocation:

Local Moves

The primary focus of child relocation laws is to uphold the best interests of the child without infringing upon the rights of either parent. These regulations also serve as a strong reminder that relocating with a child should not be taken lightly. With that, if you live in DuPage County or the surrounding areas, you do not need the approval to move so long as you remain within 25 miles of the original residence.

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 Posted on December 31, 2018 in Divorce

Stress and extreme emotions frequently coincide during the process of divorce. Occasionally, statements made during the “heat-of-the-moment” are later regretted. In many cases, these statements are emotionally painful but do little damage otherwise, so long as they remain private. However, if these statements do become public, they can destroy reputations and businesses alike. If your ex made false statements about you during your divorce, can you sue them for defamation of character?

Defining Defamation

Before determining if your ex is financially responsible for the harmful things they said during your divorce, it is essential to understand what constitutes defamation of character. Defamation is writing or saying something untrue and derogatory about someone else, with these statements resulting in substantial loss or injury. In a defamation lawsuit, you must satisfactorily prove your ex is guilty of all six of the following actions:

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 Posted on December 26, 2018 in Divorce

When you divorce, everything earned during the duration of your marriage becomes marital property and is divided between the two parties, including any business started during that time. What happens to this investment depends on the specifics of your situation and applicable state laws. Divorce business valuation and the preferred standard of valuation varies by state, in addition to whether they consider personal goodwill as a marital asset.

Here we will discuss general guidelines regarding Illinois law and business values but is not intended as a substitute for direct legal advice. For specific information regarding your case, address your concerns with an experienced DuPage County divorce attorney.

What is a Standard of Valuation?

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